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The couple, whotied the knotin December 2012, share daughterEssex, 2, and sonFordham, 4½.

“Our daughter, when she was born, I was posting pictures of her and somebody wrote me a message saying, ‘Hey, get her checked out’ because she was always twisted, she had torticollis,” Ashley, 34, shares. “Someone said, ‘Get it checked out because my son had the same thing.’ ”

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“It’s silly things, like, ‘Oh, your seatbelt is too high,’ ” Ashley tells PEOPLE.

“Even if you’re at a pool and with them, people will say, ‘Where’s their life jacket or floaties?’ ” J.P. adds. “I’m standing there next to them!”

“When you’re about to post a picture and you think, ‘Oh, is somebody going to say something about this?’ ” the mom of two continues. “It’s annoying.”

The couple also shares that raising two kids is “exhausting” but “fun.”

“Honestly, I feel like they’re at a really fun age,” the formerBachelorettesays. “They play together, they’re funny. Our daughter is … kind of going on 4. She talks a lot. I have a lot of fun right now. I don’t think it’s hard, it’s just constant.”

“It’s just exhausting,” J.P. adds. “But I wouldn’t trade it for anything.”

Though the pair is so in love with their kids, they tell PEOPLE they aren’t planning on adding a third to their family.

“A third, you’re talking minivans, extra rooms,” J.P. jokes. “It’s a good balance right now.”

Ashley adds: “We would die, we would kill each other!”

source: people.com